Juri v. Juri
Juri v. Juri
Opinion of the Court
This is an appeal from an order modifying a decree of divorce in regard to the custody of two minor chil
This court sustained the order of the trial court because, as we stated, it had impliedly found that the best interests of the children would be served by dividing their custody between the parents, and we were not prepared to say that it had abused its discretion in refusing to give the custody solely to the mother, though we expressed the opinion that, in view of the tender years of the children, and the finding that both parents were fit and proper persons to have such custody, the trial court, in the exercise of its dicretion, should have awarded their custody to the mother.
Coming now to the present appeal, the record shows that on May 18, 1942, some four months after the order amending
We are of the opinion that appellant’s contentions must be sustained. The only change of circumstances that appears in the case is that since the former order defendant has remarried and is now living in a home of her own with her husband and his two children by a former marriage—a change for the better. There is no evidence that defendant is not still
He also called some witnesses who, without knowing appellant or her home surroundings, expressed the opinion that taking the children out of their present environment would be detrimental to their nervous systems, and health. But such testimony is entitled to no consideration, the subject not being one upon which opinion evidence is proper. (Code Civ. Proc., § 1870; Moore v. Norwood, 41 Cal.App.2d 359, 366 [106 P.2d 939]); and no qualifications of the witnesses to render such opinions were shown.
As is not unusual in such cases the evidence before us and that presented on the prior appeal shows that the relations between defendant and plaintiff’s mother, who has the care of the children, are strained; that one of the reasons for the separation of the parties was that plaintiff refused to provide a separate home for his family but required them to live with his mother and sister; that defendant’s visits to see her children have not been encouraged, that she has been able to see them only in the presence of the grandmother or other members of her household, and that she has not been permitted to take them from plaintiff’s home even for an hour; that the attitude of the children toward their mother is one of fear and even of spite, and that, to say the least, they are not being taught to like or respect her. Even in the courtroom the younger child kicked his mother without reproof
Recognizing as he must in view of his previous contentions, that to justify a change of custody some change of circumstances since the making of the existing order had to be shown by him, respondent urges in his brief that the children have grown two years older, that they have become accustomed to their present environment and the persons in it; that they are of sensitive dispositions and that if taken to defendant’s home would have to compete with defendant’s present husband and his daughters for their mother’s love and affection, and face new situations; that the religious background would be different and there would be different training and methods of discipline for them in appellant’s home.
We are unable to agree that the foregoing constitute such a change of circumstances as justified the order of the trial court. As far as defendant’s home is concerned, it is not denied that she now has a fit and proper home of her own, and the objection previously made by plaintiff that she was living in one room with her sister and had no place to take the children has been obviated. The only other changes are that the children have grown a little older and, due to the conditions under which they have been living, have not had an opportu- " nity to know their mother, and have become to some extent estranged from her.
In Moon v. Moon, 62 Cal.App.2d 185, 186-187 [144 P.2d 596], in reversing an order which had given custody of a child to its father, the court said:
“Undoubtedly the trial court had authority to change its order respecting the custody of Charla (Civ. Code, § 138.) Because of her tender years, ‘other things being equal’ she should be in the custody of the plaintiff, her mother. (Civ. Code, §138.) The court having originally determined that she should be in her mother’s custody, some change in conditions or some unusual circumstance had to be shown to justify an alteration of that provision. (Foster v. Foster (1937), 8 Cal.2d 719, 726 [68 P.2d 719]; Washburn v. Washburn (1942), 49 Cal.App.2d 581, 587 [122 P.2d 96].) One who seeks a modification of an existing custody order has the burden of proving that conditions have so changed that a modification is justified (Prouty v. Prouty (1940), 16 Cal.2d*779 190, 193 [105 P.2d 295]), and the paramount purpose of the whole proceeding is to serve the best interests of the child. (Prouty v. Prouty, supra, p. 195.) The sum of the matter is that the evidentiary support for the order taking three year old Charla from her mother’s custody and placing her in that of her father, must be adequate, if the order is to stand. ’ ’
(Also see Prouty v. Prouty, 16 Cal.2d 190, 193 [105 P.2d 295]; Foster v. Foster, 8 Cal.2d 719, 726-727 [68 P.2d 719]; Olson v. Olson, 95 Cal.App. 594, 597 [272 P. 1113]; Gavel v. Gavel, 123 Cal.App. 589 [11 P.2d 654]; Washburn v. Washburn, 49 Cal.App.2d 581, 587 [122 P.2d 96]; In re Inman, 32 Cal.App.2d 130, 134 [89 P.2d 421].)
But aside from the fact that plaintiff has failed to show a change of conditions justifying a change in the prior order of the court we are also still of the opinion expressed in our former decision in this case, that in view of the tender years of these children, and the provisions of section 138 of the Civil Code, their custody should have been awarded to their mother. If, as plaintiff argues, a divided custody is likely to prove unfavorable, this could be avoided by giving the sole custody to the mother. As was said in Washburn v. Washburn, supra, and has in substance been stated over and over again by the courts of this state and elsewhere, “It is not open to question, and indeed it is universally recognized, that the mother is the natural custodian of her young. This view proceeds on the well known fact that there is no satisfactory substitute for a mother’s love. So true is this that in this state the code exacts that she shall have custody of her child, everything else being equal, unless the child has reached the age which necessitates a particular education or preparation for its life work. (Civ. Code, § 138.) In the case of girls it is obvious that they are particularly in need of the sympathy, affection, consideration and tender care which only a mother can give—and so normally they should be in her custody.” And in .Estate of Lindner, 13 Cal.App. 208, 212 [109 P. 101], it was said that “A mother who is both capable and anxious to rear her own offspring should not be deprived of the opportunity to thus discharge the duty she owes to the child, without a clear showing of unfitness for the trust.”
In the case before us the children, a boy and a girl, were, at the date of the order appealed from, respectively, about four and five years of age, and the grandmother who has their care was sixty-five, while their mother was but thirty-two. It must
"While as between parents claiming custody neither a parent is entitled to it as of right, and the welfare of the children is the paramount consideration in determining custody, the rights of the mother are not less than those of the father; and in determining what is best for the welfare of children "not only their immediate welfare but their future should be taken into consideration; and where the ability, willingness and eminent fitness of a mother to take custody of her infant offspring are unquestioned, as is the ease before us, we believe that in denying these children an opportunity to know, to learn to respect and to receive the care and affection of their mother for at least a part of each year, the trial court abused its" discretion. Its order appealed from is therefore reversed.
Peek, J., concurred.
Concurring Opinion
I concur in the reversal of the order appealed from, awarding the exclusive custody of the children to the father, on the ground that there is no substantial evidence of a change of conditions affecting their welfare since the previous order was made January 10, 1942, awarding them to the custody of the mother during the months of May, June, July and August of each year. The fitness of neither parent is seriously disputed. The court previously found that both parents were fit and proper persons to assume the custody of the children. On a motion to change the custody of children from one parent to another, the court should give effect to the former order and refuse to modify it unless there is evidence adduced showing a change of conditions detrimental to the welfare of the children. (Foster v. Foster, 8 Cal.2d 719, 726 [68 P.2d 719].) No such change appears on the present appeal.
A petition for a rehearing was denied July 17, 1945, and respondent’s petition for a hearing by the Supreme Court was denied August 16,1945. Schauer, J., voted for a hearing.
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