Myers v. Myers
Opinion of the Court
The parties in this divorce proceeding have each filed their respective bill of complaint and cross-bill seeking a dissolution of their marriage of ten years. The parties were married on July 6, 1974, and separated April 15, 1982. Each party alleges that the other wilfully deserted and abandoned the other. The defendant Donald Wayne Myers had been previously married and has a son, David Wayne Myers, who was legally adopted by his second wife, Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers. The previous marriage of Donald Wayne Myers ended when his wife died in childbirth with the son, David Wayne Myers. Both parties are seeking custody of the child who is eleven years of age. The parties request equitable distribution of marital
Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers is the extension agent for Lee County and has been gainfully employed for a number of years prior to her marriage. Donald Wayne Myers is a farmer and owner of an interest in a cemetery which he manages. Mr. Myers suffers from a physical disability resulting from injuries received in an accident. He indicates that over the years he has attempted to supplement his income by trading and doing custom farm work and grading. Both his farming operation and interest in the cemetery were conveyed to him from his parents.
As to the grounds for divorce, shortly after the marriage the parties moved into a residence in close proximity to the husband's parents. Since the death of Mr. Myers’s former wife, his parents had provided the primary care for the infant child David Wayne Myers and had also provided many of the needs of Donald Wayne Myers. It is apparent that the situation and relationship between the two families was a matter of great concern to Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers although the record does not suggest that there was any open disharmony. She apparently felt that she was not able to develop the relationship with her adopted child that she desired and that the daily association by Donald Wayne Myers with his parents was not conducive to their development of a strong marital relationship. It appears that the parties never openly and directly confronted the situation but Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers did on several occasions unsuccessfully attempt to suggest to her husband that they relocate in the county not immediately adjacent to his parents. In the latter part of 1981 Donald Wayne Myers became seriously ill and had to be hospitalized for an extended period of time. Mrs. Myers suggested that during his period of recovery that they rent an apartment closer to her place of employment where she could be available to check on and care for him after his release from the hospital. Such was done and both parties resided in the apartment during Mr. Myers recuperation. Although it is not explicit in the record, it appears that Mrs. Myers held out the hope that such living arrangement would be satisfactory and that the parties would continue to reside there. Nevertheless, after Mr. Myers reached a satisfactory point of recovery he indicated that he desired to return to their former residence and the farm which
It is unnecessary for the court to decide whether Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers was justified in her complaints about the living arrangements and relationship with her husband’s parents. Likewise, it is unnecessary to decide whether Donald Wayne Myers acted properly or improperly in either remaining in the situation or refusing to make other living arrangements. It is sufficient to say that the situation was a problem in the marriage which they were not able to resolve but which would have given neither legal justification under the circumstances to have deserted or abandoned the marital relationship. Although Donald Wayne Myers did move from the apartment last occupied by the parties and return to his former residence, I do not deem such to be wilful desertion and abandonment because it seems implicit from the circumstances that the parties contemplated such would only be a temporary arrangement. While Mrs. Myers may have hoped that such would become permanent and offer a solution to her problems, such did not develop. While the continued persistence of Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers to refuse to return to their former marital residence may have shown an intention on her part to permanently abandon the marital relationship, such did not occur. It would appear that her remaining in the apartment for a period of time was a further effort on her part to prevail upon her husband to make other living arrangements. However, when it became apparent that he had no intention of doing so, Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers relented and attempted to resume her marriage and
Child Custody
The contest for custody of the child is between the biological father and adoptive mother. Neither consanguinity nor adoption are or should be controlling factors; however, such can be considered along with all other surrounding circumstances to determine what is in the present and future best interest and welfare of the child. The court has considered a myriad of circumstances in the case at bar but will mention only those salient facts which has led to the conclusion reached. It is the opinion of the court that both parents and homes would provide a suitable atmosphere for the rearing of David Wayne Myers. The mother’s educational and employment background are positive factors which the court has considered. She possesses many personal traits and qualities that are positive factors in parenting. Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers is an industrious, well-organized, well-groomed and highly motivated individual who seems very stable and secure with her own image. She appears to be truly devoted to the welfare and future of her adoptive son but has been frustrated over the years that her husband’s parents prevented her from establishing the mother-child relationship which she desired. Throughout the evidence she commented upon her inability to establish a meaningful relationship with the child because the paternal grandparents had since the child’s early years provided for his needs and been parent figures for the young boy.
Equitable Distribution
Section 20-107.3 of the Code which became effective July 1, 1982, does control this litigation which was filed on July 19, 1982. While there are various properties and issues that will be considered, the primary problem which the court will initially address involves the home in which the parties resided which underwent
The house and certain savings acquired during the marriage through the efforts of Peggy Myers consisting of certain certificates of deposits and general savings will be dealt with separately. Insofar as the house is concerned, the appraisal report shows the value to be $47,892.00, of which sum $8,000.00 was attributable to value of the land. Peggy Myers testified that she paid $18,905.96 from her own funds acquired both during and
There were certain certificates of deposits and general savings in the name of Peggy Myers in the amount of $3,000.00 at the time portions of the evidence were submitted to the court. Additionally, she received $2,450.00 as tax refunds for 1982-83. While these were assets obtained during the marriage, it appears that they were exclusively and entirely based upon earnings by Peggy Myers during the time in which she made substantial monetary and nonmonetary contributions to the marriage and the court is of the opinion that she should retain those assets without any portion being distributed to the other spouse.
During the marriage the parties acquired a number of cattle. The evidence is in irreconcilable conflict as to the ownership of the cattle and the number of cattle that were owned by the parties as marital property at the time of dissolution of the marriage. The wife contends that she spent $3,000.00 of her own money for the purchase
Both parties in their evidence indicate that the household furnishings have been basically equitably divided between the parties and each appears willing to accept that which he has as his proportionate distribution of the assets, except for a one track snowmobile which Wayne Myers conceded that Peggy Myers could receive as her property. Accordingly, such shall be awarded and distributed to Peggy Myers.
Additionally, the parties purchased a mobile home which was placed in the name of Peggy Myers that was acquired at a value of approximately $14,800.00 according to the evidence. Of the $14,800.00 value, Peggy Myers contributed $2,507.16. The major portion of the purchase price was financed and later paid from the proceeds of the sale of property which Wayne Myers acquired from his father. The value of the asset at the time of the dissolution appears to be approximately $10,000.00. In view of the fact that this asset was acquired by independent funds obtained by Donald Myers from his father and by cash assets held by Peggy Myers, I am of the opinion that the distribution should be based upon such contributions rather than on other considerations. Peggy Myers's contribution to the purchase price was approximately sixteen per cent, entitling her to $1,600.00 of the current value if Wayne Myers is to retain this asset which is currently titled to Peggy Myers. Therefore, provided that Peggy Myers does transfer title to this asset to Donald Wayne Myers, which appears to be that which is contemplated by the parties, she shall receive a monetary award of $1,600.00 for her interest in this marital asset.
Spousal Support
Based upon the foregoing rulings, Donald Wayne Myers is not entitled to consideration for permanent maintenance and support pursuant to the provisions of Section 20-107.1 of the Code since it was determined that grounds for divorce under the provisions of Section 20-91(6) existed in behalf of Peggy Myers. Insofar as an award of spousal support for Peggy Myers is concerned, after consideration of those factors set forth in § 20-107.1 of the Code, while she is not precluded from consideration for spousal support now or at some time in the future depending upon any change in circumstances, the court is of the opinion at the current time based upon the educational training and ability of the parties, their current earning capacity, the age, physical and mental condition of both parties that no spousal support should be awarded to Peggy Myers at this time. Such issue shall remain open for any consideration based upon such future change of circumstances that may occur. Additionally, having taken into consideration essentially the same factors as outlined above, I do not feel it appropriate to require Peggy Myers to contribute to the support and maintenance of her adopted son while he is residing with
Court Costs and Attorney’s Fees
Both parties shall bear the obligations of their own attorney’s fees since the respective estates and earnings of the parties are sufficient to do so. The costs of this proceeding shall be taxed against Donald Wayne Myers.
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