Bollinger v. Bollinger
Bollinger v. Bollinger
Opinion of the Court
In this appeal from a dissolution of marriage decree the mother challenges the trial court’s determination custody of the children should be placed with the father. She also seeks an increase in allowance of attorney’s fees. We affirm the trial court’s award of custody. We agree additional attorney’s fees should have been allowed.
The parties were married in 1957. Their two children appear from the scant record presented to have a good relationship with both parents. Typically there is something to be said for the claim of both father and mother that they are in a better position to provide custody for the children. Both chil-, dren, a son and daughter, are adopted. The daughter is an overweight child who requires a special diet. The son suffers allergies for which he requires inoculations. Both children show the effects of nervous stress.
During most of the marriage petitioner was a housewife although during the past few years she started and conducted a part-time interior decorating service. An excellent housekeeper, she prepared special meals for the overweight daughter and was able to give the allergy inoculations to the son. Respondent is a high school principal who is a devoted father.
I. Our responsibility is to apply the general principles outlined in In re Marriage of Bowen, 219 N.W.2d 683, 687-688 (Iowa 1974). They need not be repeated here. Without describing the personal characteristics of the parties in detail we reach the same conclusion as the trial court.
Respondent-father has demonstrated . he is more stable than petitioner. We are persuaded petitioner is considerably less mature in her approach to parental responsibility than respondent. This was demonstrated by testimony petitioner admitted feeling trapped by the children, that she could not stand respondent or the children and that she did not sufficiently have a parental interest in her home or family. It was further demonstrated by a clandestine relationship with another man.
The criteria in Bowen, supra, are no way punitive to either parent but are directed only to the long-range best interest of the children involved. We agree with the trial court those interests demand placement of the children with respondent.
Costs on appeal are taxed equally to the parties. As so modified judgment of the trial court is
Modified and affirmed.
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