Donna SS. v. Amy TT.
Opinion of the Court
Appeal from an order of the Family Court of Tompkins County (Cassidy, J.), entered March 1, 2016, which, among other things, granted petitioner’s application, in a proceeding pursuant to Family Ct Act article 6, for custody of respondents’ child.
Respondent Amy TT. (hereinafter the mother) and respondent Richard TT.
A parent has a claim of custody to his or her child that is superior to all other persons, unless a nonparent establishes that there has been surrender, abandonment, persistent neglect, unfitness, an extended disruption of custody or “other like extraordinary circumstances” (Matter of Bennett v Jeffreys, 40 NY2d 543, 544 [1976]; see Matter of Elizabeth SS. v Gracealee SS., 135 AD3d 995, 996 [2016]). A nonparent bears the heavy burden of establishing that there are extraordinary circumstances and, thus, that he or she has standing to seek custody of another person’s child (see Matter of Brown v Comer, 136 AD3d 1173, 1174 [2016]; Matter of Lina Y. v Audra Z., 132 AD3d 1086, 1087 [2015]; Matter of Roth v Messina, 116 AD3d 1257, 1258 [2014]). Once extraordinary circumstances have been established, Family Court may then proceed to the issue
A grandparent, in particular, may make the requisite showing of extraordinary circumstances sufficient to confer upon him or her standing to seek custody by establishing that there has been an “extended disruption of custody” (Domestic Relations Law § 72 [2] [a]; see Matter of Suarez v Williams, 26 NY3d 440, 448 [2015]). Under the statute, an “extended disruption of custody” includes, but is not limited to, “a prolonged separation of the respondent parent and the child for at least [24] continuous months during which the parent voluntarily relinquished care and control of the child and the child resided in the household of the petitioner grandparent . . . , provided, however, that the court may find that extraordinary circumstances exist should the prolonged separation have lasted for less than [24] months” (Domestic Relations Law § 72 [2] [b]; see Matter of Suarez v Williams, 26 NY3d at 448; Matter of Juan J.R. v Krystal R., 143 AD3d 568, 569 [2016]). In assessing whether the parent voluntarily relinquished care and control of the child and whether the child actually resided with the grandparent for the required prolonged period of time, courts must consider the totality of the circumstances, taking into account such factors as “the quality and quantity of contact between the parent and child,” the amount of time that the child has lived with the grandparent, the quality of the relationship between the child and the grandparent and the length of time that the parent allowed the separation to continue before attempting to assume the primary parental role (Matter of Suarez v Williams, 26 NY3d at 449; see Matter of Curless v McLarney, 125 AD3d 1193, 1195 [2015]; Matter of Bevins v Witherbee, 20 AD3d 718, 719 [2005]). The “key” inquiry in determining whether there has been a voluntary relinquishment of care and control is “whether the parent makes important decisions affecting the child’s life, as opposed to merely providing routine care on visits” (Matter of Suarez v Williams, 26 NY3d at 451).
Here, petitioner’s proof appeared to be primarily directed at establishing an extended disruption of custody pursuant to Domestic Relations Law § 72 (2).
While petitioner demonstrated that the child continuously resided with her for an 11-month period following the mother’s move to Florida, she failed to proffer sufficient evidence to establish that this was a prolonged separation of the mother and the child during which the mother voluntarily relinquished care and control of the child to her. Indeed, petitioner’s testimony demonstrated that the mother maintained consistent contact with the child throughout her 11-month residence in Florida. In particular, petitioner stated that the mother regularly called the child, visited the child over Christmas and paid for petitioner and the child to fly to Florida over the child’s April vacation.
With respect to voluntary relinquishment, petitioner merely stated that she and the mother had discussed the mother’s move to Florida, but had never discussed whether the mother intended the child to move with her. In stark contrast, the mother testified that, prior to moving, she and petitioner had a discussion about the child remaining in New York only until such time as she had secured employment and prepared suitable living arrangements for herself and the child in Florida. Further, the mother testified that, after she was established in
Moreover, petitioner offered little to no evidence as to her role, if any, in making important decisions affecting the child’s life. Petitioner offered no testimony as to any instances in which she made significant decisions relating to the child, so as to establish that she provided anything more than child care for the mother while she set up residence in Florida. In fact, the only testimony given by petitioner with respect to who made important decisions relating to the child while the mother was in Florida demonstrated that it was the mother who had final decision-making authority. Specifically, petitioner testified that the mother approved the child’s participation in certain activities that had resulted in the child’s absence from school when the mother was in Florida, thereby demonstrating that, even after the mother moved, she continued to make decisions affecting the child.
In sum, although petitioner demonstrated that the child lived with her for a continuous 11-month period, the totality of the record evidence fell short of establishing that there was a prolonged separation between the mother and child during which the mother voluntarily relinquished care and control of the child to petitioner, particularly given the evidence that petitioner agreed to provide child care (see Matter of Juan J.R. v Krystal R., 143 AD3d at 569; see generally Matter of Suarez v Williams, 26 NY3d at 449-451). As such, Family Court’s finding of extraordinary circumstances is not supported by a sound and substantial basis in the record. Consequently, we dismiss petitioner’s custody petition for lack of standing, grant the mother’s cross petition and remit the matter to Family Court so that it may facilitate a smooth transition of custody and address the issue of petitioner’s visitation (see Domestic Relations Law § 72 [1]).
Ordered that the order is reversed, on the law, without costs,
. Although named as a respondent in both petitioner’s and the mother’s respective petitions, the child’s father did not file an answer or otherwise appear or participate in these proceedings.
. To the extent that petitioner also sought to establish extraordinary circumstances by demonstrating that the mother was unfit, such efforts were unsuccessful. Indeed, the report that resulted from the Family Ct Act § 1034
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