In Matter of the Adoption of Blausenhauer, 08 Ca 32 (4-17-2009)
In Matter of the Adoption of Blausenhauer, 08 Ca 32 (4-17-2009)
Opinion of the Court
{¶ 3} On March 18, 2008, appellant filed a petition to adopt Madison pursuant to R.C.
{¶ 4} A consent hearing was held on August 6, 2008. Prior to testimony, appellant's counsel argued that the evidence would show that appellee had no communication with Madison since January of 2007. The following testimony was then adduced at the hearing.
{¶ 5} Heidi Grewell, Madison's mother, testified that Madison has resided with her since birth. Grewell testified that she was not living with appellee at the time of Madison's birth and that she has four other children with appellee. The four other children all are in appellee's custody. Grewell further testified that she was given *Page 3 custody of Madison pursuant to a court order issued in October of 2006 and that, once a paternity test established in 2004 that appellee was Madison's father, appellee was ordered to pay child support.
{¶ 6} According to Grewell, appellee did not start to visit with Madison until October of 2004 when Grewell moved in with appellee. The two lived together until March of 2005. Grewell testified that, after the two separated, appellee visited with Madison a couple of times, but that there was no set visitation schedule. Although she advised appellee of Madison's hospitalizations for asthma and bad allergies, appellee only came to visit Madison in the hospital once in the fall of 2006 for approximately five minutes. At the time, Madison was hospitalized for the flu. Grewell testified that Madison had had several surgeries and that appellee only showed up for one and that appellee did not attend Madison's first year graduation or any of her school plays or performances.
{¶ 7} At the hearing, Grewell testified that the last communication that appellee had with Madison was on December 28, 2006 and that he did not see her after such time. The following is an excerpt from Grewell's testimony:
{¶ 8} "Q. Was there any discussion between you and Robert in January of 07 about the visitations?
{¶ 9} "A. Yes there was.
{¶ 10} "Q. He asked if he could have Madison, and I asked him if we can do a couple hours here and there because she doesn't know him, and every time she goes she comes back crying or I called to check on her she was crying, so I asked if him if we can do a couple hours here and there so she can get used to him, and he said he aint *Page 4 nobody's f-ing babysitter." Transcript at 14. According to Grewell, appellee never contacted her after such discussion to attempt to visit with Madison.
{¶ 11} At the hearing, Grewell testified that appellee has never sent a birthday, Christmas or other type of card to Madison and never contacted her after December 28, 2006 to arrange for visitation. She further testified that when she met with appellee to pick up her other four children from him, Madison was not discussed. Grewell testified that after the adoption petition was filed, appellee contacted her once to ask why Grewell would not "let Madison go." Transcript at 18. According to Grewell, to the best of her knowledge, appellee had not seen Madison in over a year, had any phone contact with her or sent any cards to her.
{¶ 12} Barbara Wharton, Heidi Grewell's grandmother, testified at the hearing that, several times prior to January of 2007, her daughter had called appellee about visiting Madison. She further testified that she had not seen appellee and Madison together since Grewell and appellee split up. When asked whether Grewell refused to allow appellee to visit with Madison, Ms. Wharton responded in the negative.
{¶ 13} Jacqueline Grewell, appellant's mother, also testified at the hearing that she had not seen appellee with Madison since December of 2006 and that, to her knowledge, he had not communicated with Madison since the end of December of 2006.
{¶ 14} At the consent hearing, Melissa Blausenhauer, appellee's wife, testified that she very seldom saw her stepdaughter since March 3, 2006 and that she did not recall seeing Madison in 2007. According to Melissa Blausenhauer, after December of *Page 5 2006, Grewell did not allow appellee to see Madison. When asked if she knew the reason why, Melissa Blausenhauer responded as follows:
{¶ 15} "The reason that I was either heard from Heidi was Bobby is not her dad. Bobby don't have time for Madison since Brook was born, and since we were together, and that she wouldn't let Madison come to the house because of me." Transcript at 46.
{¶ 16} Melissa later testified that she and appellee saw Madison at a school play at the end of the 2006-2007 school year. The following testimony was adduced when Melissa Blausenhauer was asked whether anything occurred with Madison at the play:
{¶ 17} "A. Heidi had held Madison up on her lap like this. Had her stand straight up and look towards Bobby through the crowd and we were standing in the back, and she had yelled out Bobby, Bobby so loud like you couldn't miss it. You knew who she was talking to. And then Bobby would smile and wave to her. Heidi had let Madison get down and get so close to Bobby thinking that they were going to hug, and came up so fast and grabbed her." Transcript at 48.
{¶ 18} Melissa further testified that she and her husband sent birthday gifts, Easter gifts and other gifts to Madison but that, because Madison never received them, they just started saving the gifts and putting them into a closet.
{¶ 19} Appellee testified that after October 30, 2006, he had visitation once a week for a couple of hours with Madison. Appellee further testified that, after January of 2007, Grewell offered him a couple of hours "here and there" with Madison and he told her that he was not Madison's babysitter and wanted to have her for a night. Transcript at 62. After January of 2007, appellee, during conversations with Grewell regarding Madison, asked Grewell when the next time was that he was going to get visitation with *Page 6 her. Appellee testified that his requests for visitation were denied because Madison was sick or staying with someone.
{¶ 20} When asked, appellee testified that the last time he physically saw Madison was the end of the 2007 school year at the school play. Appellee testified that he waved to Madison and said hello to her and that, when Madison got close to him, Grewell grabbed her away. He further testified that, during 2007, he was able to say "hi" and "bye" to Madison during exchanges of the other children from him to Grewell. According to appellee, Grewell stopped bringing Madison with her during the exchanges. Appellee testified that he did not send Madison cards or presents during 2007-2008 because Grewell threw them away. He testified that he kept cards and gifts at the house in a closet.
{¶ 21} At the hearing, appellee testified that he was current in his child support. According to appellee, during a conversation with Grewell, she told him that it was not right that she did not pay anything to him for their other four children and that she was going to call the Child Support Enforcement Agency to see if there was something that they could sign so that appellee would not have to pay child support for Madison. Appellee testified as follows when asked whether he knew the last time when he asked Grewell for visitation with Madison:
{¶ 22} "A. I would say I asked her three months.
{¶ 23} "Q. Were your requests continuous?
{¶ 24} "A. Yes.
{¶ 25} "Q. And you and the mother have a lack of communication between the two of you? *Page 7
{¶ 26} "A. Correct.
{¶ 27} "Q. And your testimony is that those conversation [sic] occurred during the pick ups and drops offs?
{¶ 28} "A. Correct." Transcript at 65-66.
{¶ 29} He further testified that he spoke with appellant during the end of 2006 regarding visitation and that appellant told him that he would talk to Grewell and see what he could do, "but he wasn't going to promise anything because [Grewell] was feisty . . ." Transcript at 67.
{¶ 30} On cross-examination, appellee testified that he had filed a contempt motion against Grewell on March 12, 2008, and that, in his motion, he alleged that Grewell had not permitted Madison to visit with him for a period of approximately one year. He further testified on cross-examination that he had last seen Madison "eleven months from now" at an exchange. Transcript at 73.
{¶ 31} Both parties filed post-hearing briefs. Pursuant to a Judgment Entry filed on October 10, 2008, the trial held that appellee's consent to the adoption was required because "[t]his Court cannot find that the father has failed to communicate with the child without justifiable cause." Appellant then filed a request for findings of fact and conclusions of law and both parties filed proposed findings of fact and conclusions of law. The trial court, in its Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law that were filed on October 10, 2008, stated, in relevant part, as follows:
{¶ 32} "2. The evidence shows that Mr. Blasenhauer [sic] did not have a complete abandonment of the current interest in the child as he repeated [sic] asked the *Page 8 Mother when he could have visitation with the child. He has custody of Madison's four siblings of whom Heidi Grewell is the mother. . . .
{¶ 33} "3. Evidence was presented that the Father tried to get parenting time with his child after December 28, 2006, but was denied by the Mother. Furthermore, the evidence as shown that at the school event at the end of the 2006-07 school year the child was permitted to come close to the Father, but then the Mother pulled the child back at the last moment. The Father did file a Motion for Contempt regarding his parenting time with Madison Blasenhauer [sic] in the Guernsey County Juvenile Court (which at the consent hearing the court took judicial notice of the case).
{¶ 34} "4. Clearly Court's have proceeded cautiously when determining whether consent is needed for an adoption of a child. Even contact as minimal as sending a Christmas card has been determined to be contact. Allowing this adoption to proceed without the consent of Mr. Blasenhauer [sic] is not supported by the evidence in this matter or by ORC
{¶ 35} Appellant now raises the following assignment of error on appeal:
{¶ 36} "THE TRIAL COURT ERRED WHEN IT RULED THAT APPELLANT HAD NOT MET HIS BURDEN OF PROOF THAT THE NATURAL FATHER HAD FAILED TO *Page 9 COMMUNICATE WITH THE CHILD DURING THE REQUISITE ONE YEAR PERIOD AND THAT THE FATHER TRIED TO GET PARENTING TIME WITH HIS CHILD AFTER DECEMBER 28, 2006 BUT WAS DENIED BY THE MOTHER."
{¶ 38} "The right of a natural parent to the care and custody of her children is one of the most fundamental in law. This fundamental liberty interest of natural parents in the care, custody and management of their children is not easily extinguished. Santosky v. Kramer (1982),
{¶ 39} R.C.
{¶ 40} "The party petitioning for adoption has the burden of proving, by clear and convincing evidence, that the parent failed to communicate with the child during the requisite one-year period and that there was no justifiable cause for the failure of communication." In re Adoptionof Holcomb (1985),
{¶ 41} An appellate court will not disturb a trial court's decision on adoption unless it is against the manifest weight of the evidence.In re Adoption of Masa (1986),
{¶ 42} Although the term "communicate" is not defined in R.C. Chapter
{¶ 43} "Significant interference by a custodial parent with communication between the non-custodial parent and the child, or significant discouragement of such communication, is required to establish justifiable cause for the non-custodial parent's failure to communicate with the child." In re Adoption of Holcomb,
{¶ 44} Asked to determine the legislature's intended meaning of the term "communicate" as used in R.C. §
{¶ 45} The trial court, in the case sub judice, found that appellant "has not met his burden of proving, by clear and convincing evidence, that [appellee] has failed to communicate with the child during the requisite one year period and that there was no justifiable cause for the failure of communication." We cannot say that the trial court's decision is against the manifest weight of the evidence because there is competent, credible evidence supporting the same. There is no evidence that appellee has abandoned interest in Madison. See Outright, supra. There was testimony that appellee attempted to obtain visitation with Madison after December 28, 2006, but that Grewell denied his requests. At the hearing, appellee testified that he spoke with Grewell during every pick-up and drop off about visitation with Madison. Appellee testified that, after January of 2007, his requests for visitation were denied by Grewell on the basis that Madison was sick or staying with someone. Appellee further testified that, at a school play at the end of the 2007 school year, he saw Madison and waved to her but that, when Madison got close to him, Grewell grabbed her away. The following testimony was adduced when appellee was asked if there were other occasions he was able to say hello to Madison during 2007:
{¶ 46} "A. Yeah at the beginning of the year, I didn't get any visits but during the exchanges [of the other children] she was in the vehicle with Heidi and you know I was allowed to say hi and bye. She just stopped bringing her. Probably wasn't even a couple. Might have been just a month. I [sic] wasn't long after that. It was just done." Transcript at 63. *Page 13
{¶ 47} Based on the foregoing, we find that the trial court did not err in holding that appellee's consent to the adoption was necessary.
{¶ 48} Appellant's sole assignment of error is, therefore, overruled.
{¶ 49} Accordingly, the judgment of the Guernsey County Probate Court is affirmed.
Edwards, J., Gwin, P.J., and Wise, J., concur. *Page 14
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