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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37 L.W. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : D.K. : : Appellant : No. 1462 WDA 2019 Appeal from the Order Entered August 29, 2019 In the Court of Common Pleas of Allegheny County Family Court at No(s): No. FD-13-000236-008

BEFORE: OLSON, J., McCAFFERY, J., and MUSMANNO, J.

MEMORANDUM BY OLSON, J.: FILED MARCH 27, 2020 D.K. (“Father”) appeals from the order entered on August 29, 2019. The subject order granted L.W. (“Mother”) permission to relocate from Pittsburgh to North Carolina with the parties’ four-year-old son, L.K. (“Child”), and modified the parties’ child custody arrangement to accommodate the relocation. We affirm.

As the trial court explained: The parties were never married. They were involved in an on-again off-again relationship beginning in 2010 and were living together when Child was born, separating not long after. Their relationship was tumultuous and their first custody order evolved out of the settlement of a protection from abuse through a non-PFA consent agreement.

Mother has always had primary [physical] custody of Child, with Father having approximately 100 overnights per year.

Father, however, also exercised custody most weekdays while Mother was working as the parties agreed this was preferable to Child being in daycare.

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Mother worked as a dental hygienist and Father is a self-employed personal trainer with flexible hours. Mother has an [11-year-old] daughter from a former relationship; Father has no other children. Both parties have extended family in the Pittsburgh area. . . .

Approximately a year ago, Mother met [S.B.] at a wedding and the two began a relationship. [S.B.] lives in North Carolina where he is a state trooper. The two became engaged to be married and Mother is expecting his child. . . .

[On February 6, 2019,] Mother filed a notice of proposed relocation[, where she requested permission to relocate with Child from Pittsburgh to North Carolina. Father opposed the relocation]. An expedited [two-hour] hearing was held on Mother’s petition on June 4, 2019 and [the trial court] permitted [Mother] to relocate by [order] dated June 19, 2019. Mother then moved to North Carolina with Child.

Father filed a complaint for custody as well as a motion for reconsideration and a full trial was scheduled. After a [one-and-a-half] day trial and consideration of a post-trial memorandum of law submitted by Father, [the trial court] entered [an order on August 29, 2019,] again granting Mother’s request to relocate and setting forth a comprehensive custody schedule for the parties.

Trial Court Opinion, 11/6/19, at 2-3 (footnotes and some capitalization omitted).

Father filed a timely notice of appeal. He numbers 17 issues in his statement of questions involved: 1. Did the trial court commit an abuse of discretion and/or error of law by failing to give proper weight and consideration to [Father’s] role in [Child’s] life in determining that this factor favors [Mother]?

2. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by failing to take into account the contacts [Child] has with his current status, more specifically, the relationships

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with all of his extended family in his current area, as opposed to no extended family, except for a sibling, in the proposed relocation state?

3. Did the trial court commit an abuse of discretion and/or error of law by concluding that [Mother’s] proposal provides to [Father], feasible opportunity to preserve the relationship between [Father and Child]?

4. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by concluding [Father] has attempted to turn [Child] against [Mother’s] fiancé that he is regularly and significantly late for exchanges?

5. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law in determining that [Child’s] life would be enhanced by allowing the relocation?

6. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by concluding that [Father] has been aggressive in the past?

7. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law concluding under Factor 4 that [Child] is resilient and very capable of adjusting and that will create stability and continuity in [Child’s] life?

8. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by concluding under Factor 5 that [Mother], though she has no family in North Carolina, she may be a stay at home mom and be with her children?

9. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by concluding under Factor 8 that [Father] has discouraged [Child] from having a relationship with Mother’s fiancé?

10. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by determining under Factors 9 and 10 that [Father] needs to improve his relationship and behavior toward [Mother] when he is frustrated and not taking into account [Mother’s] behavior toward [Father] in providing that these factors favor [Mother]?

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11. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law in determining that the proximity of the parties, under Factor 11, in considering [Mother’s] move to North Carolina that the parties will be very far away, without placing emphasis that this would favor a non relocation?

12. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law under Factor 13, determining that [Father] has initiated much of the conflict between the parties?

13. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by failing to take into account that Mother had indicated in her relocation petition that she was seeking employment, however, has changed that position, in that, she had substantial employment in this area?

14. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by failing to take into consideration that Mother has had significant relationships over the past several years and had only a one-year relationship with her current fiancé, that she would see on a biweekly basis?

15. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by failing to take into account the upcoming educational needs of [Child]?

16. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law in allowing the relocation prior to the marriage of the parties and significant ownership of property in the North Carolina area?

17. Did the trial court abuse its discretion and/or make an error of law by failing to impartially [apply] all relevant statutory factors to the present case?

Father’s Brief at 10-12 (some capitalization omitted).

We have explained: In reviewing a custody order, our scope is of the broadest type and our standard is abuse of discretion. We must accept findings of the trial court that are supported by competent evidence of record, as our role does not include making independent factual determinations. In addition, with regard -4- J-S08014-20

to issues of credibility and weight of the evidence, we must defer to the [trial judge] who viewed and assessed the witnesses first-hand. However, we are not bound by the trial court's deductions or inferences from its factual findings.

Ultimately, the test is whether the trial court's conclusions are unreasonable as shown by the evidence of record.

We may reject the conclusions of the trial court only if they involve an error of law, or are unreasonable in light of the sustainable findings of the trial court.

A.D. v. M.A.B., 989 A.2d 32, 35-36 (Pa. Super. 2010) (quotations and citations omitted).

Section 5338 of the Child Custody Act (“the Act”) provides that, upon petition, a trial court may modify a custody order if it serves the best interests of the child. 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5338. Section 5328(a) sets forth the best interest factors that the trial court must consider. See E.D. v. M.P., 33 A.3d 73, 80- n.2 (Pa. Super. 2011). Trial courts are required to consider “[a]ll of the factors listed in section 5328(a) . . . when entering a custody order.” J.R.M. v. J.E.A., 33 A.3d 647, 652 (Pa. Super. 2011) (emphasis omitted).

Section 5328(a) of the Act provides as follows.

§ 5328. Factors to consider when awarding custody (a) Factors.—In ordering any form of custody, the court shall determine the best interest of the child by considering all relevant factors, giving weighted consideration to those factors which affect the safety of the child, including the following: (1) Which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between the child and another party.

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which party can better provide adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the child.

(2.1) The information set forth in section 5329.1(a)(1) and (2) (relating to consideration of child abuse and involvement with protective services).

(3) The parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the child.

(4) The need for stability and continuity in the child's education, family life and community life.

(5) The availability of extended family.

(6) The child's sibling relationships.

(7) The well-reasoned preference of the child, based on the child's maturity and judgment.

(8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against the other parent, except in cases of domestic violence where reasonable safety measures are necessary to protect the child from harm.

(9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable, consistent and nurturing relationship with the child adequate for the child's emotional needs.

(10) Which party is more likely to attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, educational and special needs of the child.

(11) The proximity of the residences of the parties.

(12) Each party's availability to care for the child or ability to make appropriate child-care arrangements.

(13) The level of conflict between the parties and the willingness and ability of the parties to cooperate with one another. A party's effort to protect a child from abuse by another party is not evidence of unwillingness or inability to cooperate with that party.

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(14) The history of drug or alcohol abuse of a party or member of a party's household.

(15) The mental and physical condition of a party or member of a party's household.

(16) Any other relevant factor.

23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5328.

Where a request for relocation of the subject child along with a parent is involved, the trial court must consider the following ten relocation factors set forth within section 5337(h) of the Act: (1) The nature, quality, extent of involvement and duration of the child's relationship with the party proposing to relocate and with the nonrelocating party, siblings and other significant persons in the child's life.

(2) The age, developmental stage, needs of the child and the likely impact the relocation will have on the child's physical, educational and emotional development, taking into consideration any special needs of the child.

(3) The feasibility of preserving the relationship between the nonrelocating party and the child through suitable custody arrangements, considering the logistics and financial circumstances of the parties.

(4) The child's preference, taking into consideration the age and maturity of the child.

(5) Whether there is an established pattern of conduct of either party to promote or thwart the relationship of the child and the other party.

(6) Whether the relocation will enhance the general quality of life for the party seeking the relocation, including, but not limited to, financial or emotional benefit or educational opportunity.

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(7) Whether the relocation will enhance the general quality of life for the child, including, but not limited to, financial or emotional benefit or educational opportunity.

(8) The reasons and motivation of each party for seeking or opposing the relocation.

(9) The present and past abuse committed by a party or member of the party's household and whether there is a continued risk of harm to the child or an abused party.

(10) Any other factor affecting the best interest of the child.

23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5337(h).

“The party proposing the relocation has the burden of establishing that the relocation will serve the best interest of the child as shown under the factors set forth in [Section 5337(h)].” 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5337(i)(1).

Within Father’s brief on appeal, Father challenges the weight the trial court afforded the evidence and contends that the trial court incorrectly weighed the evidence in Mother’s favor. Essentially, Father claims that – as to almost every single custody and relocation factor – the trial court should have weighed the evidence so that the factor favored him. See Father’s Brief at 1-62. However, our role as an appellate court is not to reweigh the evidence. Indeed, as we have explained, we may only review for an abuse of discretion. Further, we have observed: we consistently have held that the discretion that a trial court employs in custody matters should be accorded the utmost respect, given the special nature of the proceeding and the lasting impact the result will have on the lives of the parties concerned. Indeed, the knowledge gained by a trial court in observing witnesses in a custody proceeding cannot adequately be imparted to an appellate court by a printed record.

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Ketterer v. Seifert, 902 A.2d 533, 540 (Pa. Super. 2006) (quotations, citations, and corrections omitted).

In this case, after reviewing the briefs of the parties, the relevant law, the certified record, the notes of testimony and the opinions of the able trial court judge, the Honorable Cathleen Bubash, we conclude that Father is not entitled to relief and that Judge Bubash’s opinions, entered on August 29, 2019 and November 6, 2019, meticulously and accurately dispose of Father’s issues on appeal. Therefore, we affirm on the basis of Judge Bubash’s thorough opinions and adopt them as our own. In any future filing with this or any other court addressing this ruling, the filing party shall attach a copy of Judge Bubash’s August 29, 2019 and November 6, 2019 opinions.

Order affirmed. Jurisdiction relinquished.

Judgment Entered.

Joseph D. Seletyn, Esq.

Prothonotary

Date: 3/27/2020

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I IN THECOURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF ALLEGHENY COUNTY, PENNSYlVANIA FAMILY DIVISION

Leann Weber, Plaintiff, v. No.: FD-13:"000236 ..008 Doniel Kovacs;..

Defendant.

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AND NOW, to wJti this.28th day of August 2019, after a one and 1/2-day trial and a review of the Portles' Memoranda of Law, Mother'srequest to relocate with the Minor child LK. ageq 4, (hereinafteneferred to as "Child"] is Granted D.lSCUSSION The court held art expedlted 2 hour hearing on relocation hearing on June ,.

4, 2019 which resultedin the June· 19,. 201.9 Order permitting Mother to relocate with the. minor Child. In q1oking its deterrnlnotlcn. the court specifically reviewed the relocation fcctors.set forth in 23 Pa. C.S.A. 5337 and the custody factors set forth ih 23 Pa. C.$.. A. 5328. Fqfl.owing is an updated analysis after the full trlol ort the matter.

Relocation Factors

1. Natur�, qucdity,. textent of involvement and duration of the Childs relatio.nship with pc:frty pr9.posing relocotion Qnd the non-relocating party, .I . '

$iblings and other.1significatit person.

The Child L.K. is v�ry close with both parents. He did, however, spend the majority of [email protected] with Mother.. Child has an older sibling s�s. who lives with Mother and �ith whom the court would like to ensure o reloflonship, I This factor favors K,\other.

2. Ag.e, .. developmental : stagei needs. of Child and the likely lmpec] the relocation will h9ve on Child's physical, educational and emotional developm�nt with consideration for any special needs.

The child does hot have special needs:' He does well here ih Pittsburgh and presumably, Will do well in N.orth Corollno with Mother. He is currently ·1 preschool age; so any move Will not disrupt his educofon, The most important issue is. · that . he wi . l.l miss . his. Father. . . The. court believes . thot the custody provisions of this Order will help reduce this impact.

3. Feasibility of preserving the relationship between the non�relocating party ancf Child through_ suitable custody arrangements. . Father has had very regular .dovtrne with the Child in order to keep hlrn out of dovccre.wtuch has been.very helpful to the Child. Now that Child will be in preschool, this available time will be be curtailed. Father has had about 1 oo or so overnights per year. Mother's proposal gives Dad more than l 07 ovemights a year and is, therefore. a feasible way to maintain the relationship between Father and Child. The use of Skype or face time will assist. ·, 4. Child's preference The child loves both Parents and is too young to voice a credible position,

.3 5. Established patterns of conduct of either party t.o promote or thwart the relationship of. Chi,ldren and the other party.

Father hos told th'e Child that Mom's tionce is a 'stronqer'. which scared the Child. Child is afraid to. let Father know thofhe likes Mother's ficnce.

Father is reguiarly- and significantly late tor exchonqes, This factor favors I Mother! ; 6. Whether relocation will enhance the general quality of life for the party seeking relocation including but not limited to financidl, emotional or educcficncl benefits. ' Mother credibly testified that her quality of !ife will mprove if she moves.

Mother's tlonce is.o North Carolina Highway Patrolman, earning in excess . . of $80;000. Mathe� and her fionce seem well suited and the Child does well With him. The Covrt was very favorably impressed with Mother's flonce's demeanor and professionalism, as well as his relationship with Child. Of note, tie hos often made a point of deescalating wha't he viewed -os I .

' father's aggressiv� behavior. Thi� helps both .Mother cnd.chdd, 7. Whether relocation will enhance the general quality of life for the Children including but not limited to financial, emotional and educational benefits.

If the child moves,' his life will be improved to the extent that Mother's is. He will. though, of course. miss Father very much .. The Parties must manage this and help the c.hH¢1 adjust. The reasons and motivations of each .party for seeking or opposif,g relocation.

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Mother is engage.d to Sean Bridges who. lives in North Corollno. There .did not seem to be onv ill motive for her move. Father's opposition is because · he loves his son a1d will miss him .

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. .,, ,,_,.. _ 8. Past and presentl abuse committed by apart or member of party'i household end w�ether there is a risk of harm to the Children.

I This factor is. not applicable.

Custody factors Factor I: ''Which patty is more Hkely to enc.ourdge. and permit frequent arid ·' continuing contact b'etween the Child and another porty," .• � .' I believe that both Parti�s can encourage a relationship with the other, as they . . did so while in Pittsburgh;.

Factor .2: 11The present CJ'.nd past abuse committed by a party or member of the party's hcusehold, Whether there is a continued risk of hc;mn .to the child or an abused party and whlch party cen better provide ndequote physical safegvarcts and supervlslon of the child.11 Father has been aggressive in the past though not to the level of cbuse; . ·' Factor3 considers the p;arenfol duties performed by ecch party on behalf of the child.

Both Parties do this.

F.actor 4 directs the ·court to consider the need for stability and continuity in. the.

C.hlld's.life.

While a move will change things, it appears that Mother is making a good . . decision. The child is resilient and v�ry capable of adjusting.

Factor S dfr.ee.ts the Couh·, to consider the availability of extended family. .' . . '

In Pittsburgh; daycare. '10� not necessary because Mother and Father worked together so thot Father hod Child often when Mother wos working. Mother and Father both have family here. Mother hos no. family in North Carolina; however,

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relatives may form support systems for Porents. These benefits do not trump the irnportonce of the Mother and Father to the Child,, Factor6 regards the child's sibling relat1onships.

L.K •. hos an older sibling at Mother's home. At the time of trial'. Mother was. pregnant. These sibling �elationships wiil be very helpful to Child • .

Factor 7 provides that the Court must consider the "well-reasoned preference of ·, �he. Child, based on the �hild's maturity and judgment.'' The child loves both Parents and 1s too young to voice o credible position Factor 8 directs the Court to consider the attempts. of either parent. to turn. the child against the other parent-, Father has discouraged ¢hild from having a relationship with M'other's flonce. This I

was. lncppropriote.

Factors 9 & 10, address the parties' likelihood of .maintaining a loving, stable, .ond nurturing i'elation$hip with the Child and which Party is more likely to..attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, educational, and special needs of the ·. I

·Child.

Both Potties con do this .. Father heeds to improve his relationship .ond behavior toward .Mother when he ;js frustrated. This factor tovors Mother.

Factor 11 concems the proximity of the parties' residences. '!

If Mother moves to NorthCcrolinc, os permitted, they wm be veryfdr·away.

Factor.12 requites the Court to consider ecch party's. avc:tilability to core for the .

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Child or ability to make �pproprlate child-care arrangenif:!nts.

Both Parties con do this when the child is in their care.

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,factor 13 regarding conflict be.tween the· Parties and the Pqrties willingness to

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There hos been far too much conflict between the Parties, often initiated by . �- Father. Ihls must stop. This Factor favors Mother Factor 14regards-.the hi�toryofalcohol and/or·drug abuse betwee.n the portles.

Not applicable . .

Factor 15 goes to the mrntal end physical condition of a. party or .CJ member of a party's· household. · Not applicable I Factor 16 refers to any ·other relevant fo�tor.

None tl •

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INTHE COURTOFCOMMON PLEAS OF ALLEGHl:NY COUNTY,PENNSYLVANIA FAMILY DIVISION Leann Weber, Plaintiff, No...: FD-l 3�000236'"008 v, Daniel Kovacs, Defendant.

FINAL .CUSTODY COURT ORDE'R AMENDED (FACTOR DISCUSSION ON PRIOR PAGES) And Now this 28th�day of August 2019, regarding custody of L.K. {aged 4}; It I is hereby Ordered os folJows: I. LEGAL CUSTODY The Parties shall continue to share Joint legal custody in all creos exc.ept as stated below of their f'0inor Child LK., aged 4. Joint iegal custody means that both parents have the right duty and responsibility to participate in the decision- making process on lssuesinvolvinq theChild.

Joint legal custody also. means that both parents shall be entitled to equal r . . . eceess to the Child's important records, including records of medical and dental treatments, school records .ond records of octivities. It is each parent's responsibility to request copies of the ChHq's school schedule, special event notifications, report cards, standardized test scores. meeting notices and other similar items directly from the Child's school. Each parent shall notify the other of any.appointments that.he or she has made on behalf of the Child with rnediccl. dentol, cpticcl, psvcholoqlcol or other healthcare providers, as well as any oppolntments. meetin�s Or conferences With any educationql provider Su.eh !

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The parent then having physical custody. consistent with the other provisions of this Order. shell make ministerial decisions involving the Child's dov- to-day living.

II. PHYSICAL CUSTODY 1. The portles shall share legal custody of the minor child.

2. .Mother shall have primary phvslcol custody.

3.. Father shall hove pqrtial physical custodv.Jn Pittsburgh, as follows: a. From thE:lifirst Saturday in June until the third Soturday in August, each year ..

b. One. weekend per month in September, October, February, March o,nd May, eai::� year; os agreed upon by the parties. r .• . ' c. From the Wednesday before Thanksgjving vntil the Sunday after, eochveor.

d. From the fir�t day until· �he second to the last dc:iy of holidoy break stdrtinQ in December and ending in January.

e. From Gocpd Friday through the day before spring break ends in I April. l f. .At any othenftmes. as the porfles rnov 5'.)greei .g . Mother shall be responsible for ail travel related to Father's periods

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Carolina to see the Child; t

h. If Mother travels to Pitt�burghWith the Child; Father shall be ' provided wi/h 50% of the overnights available. If Fathe.r is working, .

Mother may have Child in the daytime.

Ill. Miscelfaneous : . ' . ,f . . .· i. Father shall hove Focetlrne calls with the minor child each evening while in Mother�s custody prior to bedtime. ....

J. The: parties sholl consult eoch other with respect to the education and religious troir'iing of the Child; the general welfare of the Child; the medical care of the Child: and other like matters ofirnpcrtcnce affecting th� Child. The education, development, health and well- being of the Child shall be the paramount consideration of the Mother and1the father.

k, Each party �haH, ct all times, keep each other informed of-his or her plate of residence and telephone numberand shall promptly notify I . .

the other of ·any change, giving the oddress of the new place of residence and the new telephone. number. Each party agrees to keep the. other informed of the whereabouts and activities of the Child While with thot party. They mutvally agree that if either of them has knpwleqge of any illness or occident or other I . clrcumstonoas seriouslv affectino the health or welfare of the Child,

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the Mother or Fath�r. as the cose may be. shall promptly notify the other of such Circumstances.

I. Each party shall have the obligation to have the Child ready for beginning end the end of scheduled perloosot partial custody and to encourage th.em to participate in the successful implementofion of the plan ordered by the· Court While in the presence of the ' Child. neither of the parents nor significant others sha I.I make any remarks or qo. anything . disparaging. which can Jn a11y way be construed as derogatory or uncomplimentary to the other parent ahd it shall 9-e the dl.Jty of each parent to uphold the other parent as one whom the Child should respect and love. hi. The Parties to use QFW J9 choose specific times for all meetings end to comrnuniccte about important rnotters relating to the Child.

n. Child is to be enrolled in a preschool in N. Carolina. !

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o. This Order soall remain in full force ond effect until furtherOrc:ler of Court or Wriften agreement of the parents.

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IN THE COURT OF COMMON Pl�AS OFALLEGHENY COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA FAMILY DIVISION

DOniel Kovats Plaintiff, No.: FD-13,.000236 v. Sup. Court No: 1462 WDA 2019 Leann Weber Defendant.

OPINION November 6, 2019 JtJdg.e Cathleen Bubash

Father, Dahiel Kovacs (hereinafter "Fother''] has appealed from my A1Jgust 28�. 2019 Custody Order grontrng Mother, t.eonn Weber1s (11Mother11) request to relocote to North Carolina with the parties' son.Lk., age4 ( Childi 11 1).

Becouserny . Order was. within my discretion and is in Child'.s best interest, it should be affirmed.

Background The parties were never rnorrtec. They were involved in an on-again off- .again relationship beginning, in 20l0 and were living together when Child was . . born, separating not long after. Their relofionship was tumultuous and their first custody order evolved out of the settlement of a Protection from Abuse through o Non-PFA Consent Agreement.

Mother has olways had primory custody of Child, with Father having approximately 100 overnights per year. Fcither, however, also exercised custody most weekdays while Mother was working as the parties agreed this was

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prefercble to Child being in dcvcore ..

Mother worked as a dental hygienist and father is a selr-ernployed personal trainer with flexible hours .. M0;ther has an eleven year old daughter from a former relationship; Fqtherhas no other children. Both parties have extended family in the Pittsburgh area; Approximately a year ago, Mother met Sedn Bridges at o wedding and the two began a relationship; Mr. Bridges. lives in North Carolina where he is a state trooper. The two became engaged lo be married1 and Mother is expecting his child. Mother tiled a Notice of Propose<:! Relocatioh on rebruary 6, 2019 and Father filed a timely counter-cfftdovtt.

An expedited two hour hearing was held on Mother1 s petition on June 4, 2019 end I permitted her to relocate by my Order of Court dated June 19, 2019.

Mother then moved to North Carolino With Child.i Father filed a Cornplcint for Custody as well as a Motion for Reconsid�ration and a full trial was scheduled.

After a one and a half day trial ond consideroflon of a post-trial Memorandum of Law submitted by Father, I entered· my August 28 ..2019 Order. dgqin granting Mother's request to relocate andsetting forth a comprehensive custody schedule for the portles, In mdkihg · my decision, I performed on analysis of th� custcov factors of 23 Pa;C\S.A. §.5328 and the relocation factors of §.5337.

This appeal followed. Father has asserted that I committed seventeen (l7} separate errors. H.e asserts that I erred or abused tny discretion in my analysis of both the 23 Pa.c.s. §5337relcx;ation foctcrscnd the custody factorsof23 Pa.c.s.

§5328, as well as asserting that I. failed to apply those. stotutes impartially and ign.ored evidence ..

i Mother testified thcit the couple become engaged over the Christmas holiday. Father csserts it was later, after the request tor relocctlon. I found Mother credible on this issue but the date of their engdgement played a rninrmol role in· my analysis. . . .

2 Mother moved earlier thoh originolly contemplafeo causing. an unforlunote gop in. Fother's cu�ody ·.

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Discussion While I will address Father's assertions of error generally below, I first note that while I found both otthese parents to be competent and committed parents who both want the best for Child, my role is to determine whatis in the best interest of the Child, not the. parents .. These parties have historically had o very difficult time. co-parenting Child due to their inability to properly communicate with each other. Fault for this lock of communication Hes with both porfles.

I dld, however, find Mother's descriptions of the parties' day to day interactions with Child end with each other to be more credible .thon Father1 s. I also found Father's testimony regarding his conslstentlcteness in. picking up and returning Child from his periods of custody not to be credible.. With regard to the parties' testimony concerning Father's aggressive1endendes toward Mother and her flonce. I also found Mother to be more credible. on· issues of credibjljty and weight of the' evidence, the SuperiorCourt defers to "the findings of the trial judge who has had the opportunity to observe the. proceedinqs and demeanor of the witnesses." Billhime v, Billhime, 869 A.2d 1031, IOJ6 (Po�Super;200.5) (citation omitted}. ln this case, I found that Father could see only his §Jood qualities as a Father; but also artificially and negatively portrayed Mother and attempted to negate herverv r�al role. in the Child's life as her primary cusrodlon.

In the first twelve paragraphs . of. his l .925{b) Statement, Father olleqes'l failed to properly weigh and apply both the statutory custody factors of 23 Pa. c:s.

§.532$ dnd therelocorlon teeters of §5337. I ernphosized the.tcctors which I found were entitled to the most weight in this case. "lr is within the trial court's purview as the finder of fact to determine which enumerated best interest factors are most salient and critical in each particular child custodvcese.. llM.J.M. v. M.L.G;, 63 A.3d 331, (Pa. Super;20J3): opp. den. 68 A.3d 909.

-·-·----·-·-···----··-------" ·-------------------------- A. Relocation . Father asserts that .1 erred by finding that Retocctton Factor I tovored Mother because I did not give "proper weight and consideration to the Father's role in the child's life. . " I did, in fact, recoqnize Father's Signifi<.:ar.it tole, but also found Child has spent a majority of his overnights With Mother, who hos been his primary custodian tot his entire life, He also has an older sibling who lives with Mother and will soon hove on additional sibling who will be living with Mother, so I found this factor w.e.ighed in her tovor. Factor I requires that .1 examine the "nature, quality, extentot involvement, and duration of the Child's reloflonshlps" not just with the parents, but wlth siblings end other significant persons; I found this factor to tcvor Mother.

Likewise� contrary to Father's assertion that I failed to "toke into occount" Child's contacts w.ith extenqed family, I did consider that Child has extended torriily which act cs a support system in the Pittsburgh area and none in North Carolina. I found Mother credible; however, when she. described the visits her mother and other relatives hovemode and will make to NOrth Corofno. Mother's testimony demonstrated mor she understands thejrnportunce of family and will preserve. Child's connections to his extended relcttons. She said. of maintaining those ties: 11So family - we don't lose ties because we moved. Our relationships are .still intact.''(TR, 8/20 p. 149). Additionally, my Order grants Father extended periods of custody in Pittsburgh and he has olso indicated he will preserve Child's relationship with both his and Mother's.extended family, I found; however, Child's relationships With his siblings to be more important them his relationship with his cousins and other extended relations when weighing this factor, Father a pp eared to Q ive no importance to Child's reloflonshlp with his sibling due to their age difference {TR. 8/20 p .. 81-82).

Father next argues that! erred in mv.onolvsis of Factor 3 by determining that Mother's proposal provides Father a feasible opportunity to preserve his relationship with Child .. Mother's proposal and my Order provide Fatherwith more overnights than he hod before the relocctien, He is provided long periods of custody during holldovs.. summer, and long weekend�, regular telephone and Facetime contact, and additional periods of custody should he travel to North Corolino to visit Child; Father has a flexible schedule as he owns his own business and could make orrcncernents to travel to North Carolina.

I omcoqnlzontthot-the time Fother hosspentwtth Child,.vv.hich was almost daily, wUl be impacted by the relocation; As I noted in rnv Order, however, this doily contact would have been curtailed anyway as. Child began attending school. The. custody schedule set out in my Order will provide Pother with a feasible way of mdintairiing his meaningful relationship with Child.

Next, Father focuses on my analysis of Factor 51 whether either pcrtv's conduct has demonstrated an attempt to "thwort the relationship of Children ond the other party." I found that two Separate aspects of fdther' s behavior resulted in this factor weighing in Mother's favor. First, Mr� Bridges' credible testimony made clear that Father was .ontoconlsfic toward Motheris ficnce on numerous occasions and behaved toward him in an unfriendly fashion in front of Child. {TR. 8/20p, 129-131, 13.4... 135). Father also told Child that Mr. Bridges was a "stranger" which I found was intended to cause Child to fear and/or mistrust M.r. Brid�es. (TR 6/4 p. l l 3; TR. 8/20 p. 100). seeondlv, Father was perpetually and significa11tly late for custody exchanges, often more than an hour. This caused Mother to be in stressful situations Where she hod to get coverage for Child so she could make it to work, or where Child was returned close to bed time, rather than at en hour when he and Mother could ehjoy cm evening together.. This oehovlor happened too consistently tobe mere inadvertence . .Father himself testified thot

--·----- he was often lote becouse h'e was eating dinner with Child. I found that this behovlor was purposeful ond dernonsfrated that Fother holds Moth.er in disdoin.

In the fourth parograph ot his Stclement. . Father. conflates .. these two behoviors. I did not find .. nor did. Lstote in my Order that ·by be.'ing lote, F9ther ctternpted to turn Child: against Mother's fionce... I found, instead, that Father behaved - both by acting aggres:sive'ly "toward Mr:. Bridge$ and ·i.n disrespecting Mother·' s time ,With Chilo - in.. a rnonner whtch would serve to thwart the retotlonsblp between ·Child and.,Mother ·OS. well csbelween Child and Mr. ...-e>ridges·.

Conversely, Mr: Bricfges. corrrrnendoblv behoved in a manner designed to de;;. · escalate the ·strifa '.Foth.er"s behavior was· .oaus.ing ..

Father also. claims I erred by finding Child's. life wou lcf be enhanced by the. move :o.s· contemplated b.y_ Facrcr 7; .As the.portv proposing relocchon .. Mqfh�r bears the burden ofprovihg relocotlon will;serve:the children's best interests. See P.a.C.;S.A. § 53·37.li}, S.J.S� v, M.J.S"!/ .76 A..39 .S4L 5.51 {Pd: Super...2013.) -, l· found that Mother met her burden. l found fhat Chiid''s life wili be enhanced by the enhoncernent of _Mother's Hfe, .both financially and emotionally. Mother testiffed that she will be able to stay at home for a time with Child .ond his new- sibling due to her ticnces sufficient income, Which Will be helpful for Child's transition. (TR.

B}-20· p .. 159). Addlti.onolly, M.othet ond her flonce seem well suited and demonstrated o caring and gen'tle attitude toword each other which will be a g.bod atmosphere for Child-to le·arn obout adult reloflonships -.

I acknowledged that ChJld will miss his Father and that Father provided ·significant and beneflclcl things to Child'.s fife. He .will still be cble t.o do so under the custody terms o.f mvoroer. Child will not have d<iily contoct wlth his. cousins and. extended fam.ily with _th.e relocotion, bu.t he will have daily contact- with his ·siblihgs which I, deemed to be more irnportont. He will be able to maintain his r-e.lationship.s with his couslns duri0g holidays and extended visits to Pittsburg.h

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In all, I found that the relocation factors primarily favored Mother, The terms of my Order will allow Mother to have happiness in her new marriage and new baby which will tie beneficial to Child and. his happiness os well, while also allowing Fatherto rnolntoln o significant dncl meaningful relationship with his son.

B. custody factors Father next finds fauit with my analysis under custody factors 2, 4, 5; 8, 9., 1 Q, 11, and 13. In essence, all of his cornpldlnts come down to. a disagreement with my determination that the lion's share of the problems betwe.en the parents were caused by Father, who I found to be both passively and actively aggressive in his behavior toward Mother end her fionce. both important people in his son's life.

The parties both testified that they had o difficult time communicating: I did not conclods that all toult fell to Father. I did fihd from the testimony, however, that it was Father who exccerboted the situation by being consistently late, by attempting to thwart the relationship with Mother's ficnce. by acting in an aggressive manner at exchanges, and by interfering with Mother's communtcotlon with Child when he was in Fother's custody. {TR. 8/20 P� 144).

Moreover, despite being ordered to do so on more than one occasion since April 20.l 9, Father refused to communicate with M.oth19r using "Our Family Wizard", only registering for i.t on the day prior to trial in August which could hcveellmtnctec or reduced some of the breakdown in comrnunlcotlon. {TR. 8/20 p. 9.2-93, 14.1-142).

Additionally, I found Father's fear that Chilq will lose his religion, lose his connection with tornily. not receive a good education, and not be properly porented if he relocated With Mothe.r to be exaggerated. His attempts to paint .Mother os mentally imbalanced, 'Unstable, flighty and promiscuous, likewise, were notreolisflc, (TR. 8/20p. .

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Father complains that I did not findthat Factor 11 regarding distance and proximity precluded relocation. Many relocation cases result lrt o pare qt living a great dlsto nee from a Child. But distance is but one of the factors to be considered. When weighed against the factors to which r gave. greater weight, this factor was less important.

lmportaritlyi I found, based on the testimony, that Factor l otthe custody factors was more important and that of either party, Mother was more likely to encourage o relationship with Father,. as evidenced by her willingness to provide Child'$·trdnsportation tovisitwith Father in Pittsburgh, as well as providing him with an adequ.ate substltute for regular access - induuing exlensive holiday ond summer custody, and liberal custody in North Carolina; In contrast; Father proposed to oniy allow Mother to exercise partial custody of Child only in Pittsburgh ·it her relocation petition was denied. [TR. 8/20 p. 86). lt·wqs only after prodding that he· agreed Child could spend summers and holidays in North Carolina with Mother, (TR. 8/20 p. 87:.;88).

My review of many of the. custody factors resulted in ah almost neutrol balance. between the parties, but the relocation factors favored Mother as did the factors dealing with attempts to thwort the relationship with the other parent C� Father's Remaining Complaints In paragraphs 8 through 12 on the third page of his l925(bJ Statement,

employment in North Corollno = Father complains that I did not properly weigh Mother's decision not to seek that I failed to consider that she had been involved in "significant relotionshlos" over the post several years. He also complains that I did not consider Child's upcoming educational needs or that Mother was not yet married and that she and herflonce had changed addresses since the filing of the Relocation Notice. Lastly, he ccmplclns that I was not irnpartialin my application of the relevant statutory factors .

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----- ---------------------·-·------·-·--·-· Mother indicated in her initial Notice of Relocation that she was seeking employment cs-o dental hygienist in North Caronna. Afterwards, Mother decided not to seek employment but to stay home with her children. J dldnotffnd that this indicated she had engaged in deceit or that she could not make up her mind.

She and her ficnce ultimately purchased a lot and new home in a new development. I did not find this to be concerning either. (TR. 8/20 p. l.l SJ.

I, likewise, did not find the fact that Mother dated two men in the three yeu1s lhe porlies were aµtli'l .10 be �Videric..:e of promiscuily, flightiness or instability, which seemed to be the inferences Father expected me to drow.

Lastly, Father questions my impartiality iri the application of the statutory factors. As I stated above, end cs I also stotedln the courtroom ond in my Order, J found both' parties to be competent, loving parents who care deeply for their Child. In this cose. I had to choose which parent would be the primary custodian and where the. Child should. live. On balance, I found that it Was in the Child's best interest to remain With the parent who had always been his primqry custodian and that he should live. with Mother and his siblings in the home she is making with her new husband-to-he. That I did not rule in. Pother's favor is not evidence of bias.

Conclusion Becouse I dndiy:zed this cose in light of the relevant statutory factors and because my August 28, 2019 Custody Order is supported by the evidence end serves the best interests of Child, it should be affirmed�

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