In re S.R.E.
Opinion of the Court
This docket number was initiated by a Petition for Guardianship on February 23, 2005. The Division of Social Services (DSS) completed and filed a report on September 15,2005, and the petition came for a final hearing on September 20, 2005. Having considered the record and all testimony and discussions at the hearing, and being otherwise fully informed, the Court enters the following findings and orders:
The minor child S.E. was born on November 30, 2002 to R.E. and K.T. R. and K. separated when child was one year old, and child spent approximately six months with K. after the separation. The child has been in the care of Petitioner since May 2004. The Petitioner is not related to either the minor child or the parents, but is the girlfriend or common law spouse of child’s paternal uncle.
While child was in the care of his father, after his parents had separated, K. apparently gave permission for the paternal uncle and the Petitioner to “spend some time with” child. See Report of the DSS, 9/15/05, p.2. After that, both parents reported to DSS and testified at the hearing that they made attempts to regain custody of, or have visitation with minor child. In summary, child has been in Petitioner’s care for more than a year with little or no contact from R. or K. The DSS report recommends that guardianship “not be granted for the Petitioner” and that “the child be returned to his natural mother.” Report of the DSS, 9/15/05, p.6. The Court agrees, and offers further explanation for this very difficult decision.
As this Court understands, there are also traditional notions of guardianship and child care within Dinébi beenahaz’danii. For example, children are not just the children of the parents, but they are children of the clan, especially the mother’s clan. See Goldtooth v. Goldtooth, 3 Nav. R. 223 (W.R. Dist. Ct. 1982). Likewise, a child may be given or offered to a maternal aunt or other close family or clan relative to be raised, especially if that extended relative did not have children of their own. These guardianship arrangements were meant to preserve k’éand harmony within the clan.
In this case, the petition for guardianship meets neither the requirements under bilagdana concepts nor under Dinébi beenahaz’danii concepts. The Court concedes that the mother has not been the caretaker or guardian for this child, but there has been no evidence that she is now unwilling or unable to take up that role. Also, the arrangement that lead to child being raised by the petitioner thus far is not sufficient to create a guardianship pursuant to Dinébi beenahaz’danii. When the father allowed the child to spend some time with the paternal uncle, it was not intended to be a permanent custodial relationship. Further, although the father may have consented to the arrangement, there was no agreement or consent from the mother. Therefore, the situation is very different than when the mother agrees that it is best for the family or clan that her child be raised by an aunt or other relative.
For the foregoing reasons, the Petition for Guardianship is hereby DENIED. Since there has never been any legal custody arrangements or guardianship decrees to the contrary, it is unnecessary to order that custody be restored in the mother. The mother has always remained child’s legal guardian, and the Court simply affirms that relationship. The DSS is ordered to facilitate the physical transfer of S. from the petitioner to his mother, taking whatever intermediate steps are necessary to ensure the well being and best interests of the child. The Court trusts the expertise of the Division, and if further orders are necessary to carry out the custody transfer the Court expects a written document from the Division or the parties.
With respect to visitation between the father and child, the Court leaves that up to the parents at this time. Unless there is good reason, the mother should not deny visitation to the father. As his primary custodian, the mother should be concerned about providing child with an ongoing relationship with as many members of his family (paternal and maternal) as possible. If the parties cannot work out a schedule on their own, they may return to the court for an order specifying the details of the visitation schedule. Should this be necessary, either party may file a Petition for Visitation.
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly at this time, the Court wishes to address Petitioner and her role with child. To say that the Court commends her for raising this child to date and for providing him with love and support is clearly insufficient. This decision undoubtedly seems unfair to Petitioner, who was the only party present in the courtroom with a truly well-established relationship with child. At the end of the hearing, when petitioner requested visitation with child, the Court stated that it could not order such visitation. Indeed, the Court stands by all its findings and discussions at the hearing and today in this order, and cannot order that the mother allow visitation between child and Petitioner. But the Court hopes that such visitation will occur and that all parties will facilitate child’s transition now, and act in his best interests in the future.
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