Khilji v. Khilji
Opinion of the Court
This matter came before me on Mr. Khilji’s Motion to Dismiss the Child Custody Petition for Lack of Jurisdiction. For the reasons stated below, the Motion is denied.
Tahir Khilji and Ann E. Zahra (who went by the name of Ann E. Khilji during the marriage) were wed on March 31,1989, in Pakistan. During their marriage, they had one son, Khaqan Ali. Mr. Khilji moved to the United States in 1992 to attend a university. His wife and son joined him in this country in July 1995, and they all resided in Maryland. In late 1996 or early 1997, Mr. Khilji returned to Pakistan for four or five months to work on his thesis, while his wife and son remained in Maryland. Shortly after his return in April 1997, marital difficulties arose. Ms. Zahra and Khaqan left Maryland to visit her relatives in northern Virginia ostensibly for the weekend and thereafter did not return to Maryland. Mr. Khilji filed a petition for divorce on July 14,1997, and a petition for custody on September 30,1997, in Lahore, Pakistan. Ms. Zahra initiated her proceeding for custody in Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court of Fairfax County on October 7,1997. That petition was dismissed for lack of subject matter jurisdiction on July 8,1998, and this appeal was taken to the Circuit Court. Ms. Zahra has filed no answers on the merits of the pending custody proceeding in Pakistan. The pleadings filed on her behalf have been in the appellate proceedings only, addressing the issue of that country’s jurisdiction.
The Commonwealth retains jurisdiction over this child custody dispute under Va. Code § 20-126, which states:
A. A court of this Commonwealth which is competent to decide child custody matters has jurisdiction to make a child custody determination by initial or modification decree if:
1. This Commonwealth (i) is the home state of the child at the time of commencement of the proceeding... [or]
2. It is in the best interest of the child that a court of this Commonwealth assume jurisdiction because (i) the child and his parents, or the child and at least one contestant, have a significant connection with this Commonwealth, and (ii) there is available in this Commonwealth substantial evidence concerning the child’s present or future care, protection, training, and personal relationships____
Under Va. Code § 20-126(A)(l), the Commonwealth is the home state of Khaqan. “Home state” is defined in Va. Code § 20-126 as “the state in which the child immediately preceding the time involved lived with his parents, a parent, [or] a person acting as parent, for at least six consecutive months____” On April 6, 1997, both Ms. Zahra and Khaqan moved from Maryland to Virginia. On October 7, six months alter the move to Virginia, Ms. Zahra filed for custody of her son in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court of Fairfax County, thus fulfilling the six-month requirement.
In addition, this court retains jurisdiction under Va. Code § 20-126(A)(2). Both Khaqan and Ms. Zahra have significant connections with Virginia; they have lived in the Commonwealth since April 1997; they have formed religious affiliations in the Commonwealth; they have family and friends in ire Commonwealth; Ms. Zahra owns property in die Commonwealth; and Khaqan has been educated for two years in the Commonwealth. Similarly, these connections provide “substantial evidence” concerning die child’s present and future care, protection, training, and personal relationships because the child’s teachers, friends, and religious mentors are here.
A. A court of this Commonwealth shall not exercise its jurisdiction under this chapter if at the time of filing the petition a proceeding concerning the custody of the child was pending in a court of another state exercising jurisdiction substantially in conformity with this chapter, unless the proceeding is stayed by the court of the other state because this Commonwealth is a more appropriate forum or for other reasons.
Mr. Khilji filed a petition for custody in the Guardian and Wards Court in Pakistan on September 30, 1997, eight days before Ms. Zahra filed her petition in the Fairfax County Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court. Mr. Khilji’s petition in the Guardian and Wards Court was later dismissed for lack of jurisdiction. This decision was upheld in the Pakistan district court. The Lahore High Court, however, reversed this decision and remanded the petition to the Guardian and Wards Court for an evidentiary hearing. The Supreme Court of Pakistan stayed the remand. As of this date, there is no pending petition in Pakistan. Therefore, Va. Code § 20-129 is inapplicable at this time. If, however, the stay is lifted and a Pakistan court determines that it has jurisdiction to determine child custody, I will stay this proceeding until I communicate with the appropriate Pakistani court as required under § 20-129(c) of the Code of Virginia.
The Commonwealth may decline jurisdiction if it is an inconvenient forum under Va. Code § 20-130. hi determining if it is in the interests of the child that another state assume jurisdiction, the court should take into account the following factors:
1. If another state is or recently was the child’s home state;
2. If another state has a closer connection with the child and his family or with the child and one or more of the contestants;
3. If substantial evidence concerning the child’s present or future care, protection, training, and personal relationship is more readily available in another state; and
4. If the parties have agreed on another forum which is no less appropriate.
Finally, this court may also decline jurisdiction under Va. Code § 20-131 if one of the parties has wrongfully taken the child from another state or has engaged in similar reprehensible conduct and the court finds it just and proper to decline jurisdiction. I have grave concerns over Ms. Zahra’s conduct in making Khaqan unavailable to Mr. Khilji. I do not find, however, that she wrongfully took die child or has engaged in similar reprehensible conduct. Ms. Zahra’s conduct will be a factor at the child custody proceeding but is not an issue for purposes of determining jurisdiction under § 20-131 of the Code of Virginia. Ms. Zahra alleges she took Khaqan for two reasons: first, because she feared Mr. Khilji was abusive, and second, because she had nowhere else to go. I find that Ms. Zahra’s explanation of fear of abuse is unfounded. However, I find that she moved to northern Virginia because it was the only place reasonably available to her when she separated from Mr. Khilji. Furthermore, I find that Khaqan’s location was within Mr. Khilji’s reasonable determination. Mr. Khilji spoke with his wife during or shortly after their separation weekend. Ms. Zahra and Khaqan lived with a relative known and seen by Mr. Khilji. Within months of the separation, Mr. Khilji received, through a relative, school documents with Khaqan’s address. I am unpersuaded that Khaqan’s whereabouts could not have been reasonably ascertained by Mr. Khilji.
In conclusion, the Court retains jurisdiction over this child custody dispute under Va. Code § 20-126 and does not decline jurisdiction under either Va. Code § 20-130 or Va. Code § 20-131. At this time, Va. Code § 20-129 is inapplicable because there is no pending petition in Pakistan. If a petition in Pakistan proceeds, I will stay the child custody determination until I communicate with the appropriate Pakistani court as required under § 20-129 of die Code of Virginia. I do not address the possibility of Mr. Khilji’s consent
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